Did You Know?

Today I'm writing because I'm frustrated. I'm frustrated because people are blind to what others go through. Today someone said to me, "if you can't work and plan a wedding at the same time, you shouldn't be getting married." Well... that might be true, but here's the thing: Did you know that my dad doesn't have a job right now? And did you know that I live on the same floor of a house with a newborn baby that cries all night long? Or that my grandpa is in and out of the hospital dying and chances are that I'll never see him again? Did you know that I'm fighting every second of every day to keep my eating disorder away because the girl that measured me for my wedding dress did it wrong, and now the dress that my mom saved up for for months to buy me is too small and I'm going to be the fat bride that doesn't fit in the dress that was made for me? And did you know that on top of all that, my fiance is out of town, and I'm trying to work full-time and plan a wedding all on my own and I'm just a little stressed out? No. I guess you didn't know. Next time try walking a day in my shoes and see how long you can last. And next time, be a little nicer.